You are welcome to follow me, friend me and message me. Straight, 5'5", demisexual, sapiosexual, curvy BBW, long brown hair, blue eyes, college-educated professional in an open marriage. I’m a introverted, curious, and exploring kitten just starting to venture out more. I like expressing myself and the exhibition of posting my photos and videos here. I would like to make more in-person connections than just online. I love being kissed, touched and spoiled with attention. I absolutely love the feeling of giving up control and submitting to someone that has taking the time to build trust with me. I love being pursued, desired, and wanted. Genuine effort and masculinity are sexy as fuck! If you’re not a connection based person please don't message me. I do not want to meet people that are not looking for friendship/communication outside of sex. I hate being ignored until the next intimate session. My biggest pet peeve is people who are not clear with what they are looking for as they tend to be the same people who say and offer things they have no intent on fulfilling. I am submissive but not to everyone and I am no ones doormat. I am currently open and looking to play with one or two other dominate leaning males, preferable ages 36 to 65 years old. I am open to whatever the situationship organically grows into whether that be D/s dynamic, FWB, Girlfriend, just friends etc. but have no expectations. Respect and love for my husband will always come first and I will not tolerate anyone trying to change that. ------------------------------------------ Non-negotiables and how you start something with me: -----------------------------------—— Must have a recent STI test/be tested regularly. My age range for play is 36 to 65 years old. I cannot host. I do not travel outside of my location. I don’t cover your hotels/travel ect. We need to talk a little to see if their is any chemistry and if what we like in the bedroom is compatible. We must meet in person in public for a non-sexual quick meet before even considering the bedroom. My schedule for our first in-person non-sexual meet: Mon-Friday for about an hour in the morning or afternoon. I do not do first meets in the evening and I don't like to go to bars. My schedule for play: M-F evenings and Sunday evenings. Friday and/or Sunday evening work the best for me. I have a very high sex drive and I would like to find someone who can meet on a regular basis. Must be clear about your schedule and times meeting would work. If our schedules do not align there is no point meeting in person. Must be respectful of my boundaries; be honest and upfront about what you are looking for. -------------------------------- What I would like to find: ------------------------------- I haven’t experienced a lot yet but would like to try many things. I like being submissive, spoiled, loved on, praised, cuddled, teased and romanced. I am interested in experiencing things like bdsm, ropes, restraints, sensual play, sensory play, spanking, wax, dirty talk… you get the idea but just really great sex consistently would be awesome to. I am NOT looking for random hookups, one hit wonders or passing through your town hook-ups. I am looking for one or two men to enjoy ongoing fun with that are local. Couple play: I am NOT Bi. I am not your unicorn. I am open to playing alone with the man with wife/girlfriends approval or pleasing the man with his significant other all together but I am not interested in sex with the women. Just like in a MFM the men usually are not intimate with each other. I am NOT interested in sex with trans, women, submissive men, men in women's lingerie, pegging, extreme pain, blood, scat, poo, humiliation, degrading ect… We all have our preferences and mine should be respected just as much as your own. NOT interested in: no profile pic, no bio dude. Seriously you send me a messages if I am interested? Interested in what? Your no pic or no bio? Not interested in endless cyber sexting.

My Ideal Person My ideal person(s)
are intelligent, dark humor, sarcastic, take-charge, in control authoritative types that talk dirty and gives orders in bedroom, tall, beards, and strong shoulders,... masculinity is not toxic; it is hot. For me, personality is everything and is above physical appearance. Must have a high sex drive and communicate clearly.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Role Playing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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