AN INTERVIEW WITH WEGOFORIT2

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Very recently @wegoforit2, a married blogging couple from British Columbia in Canada, kindly agreed to be interviewed by me. To find out why they seldom make use of their huge collection of sex toys, why they like group sex and why they got banned from sex clubs, please read their fascinating answers to the interview questions below. (The husband is answering the questions.)

?1. When and why did you join this site and, in particular, when and why did you decide to blog?
We think we joined this site about 20 years ago. We were on a few other sites and they had their problems. Someone suggested AFF, and we tried and we are still on here. I (James) thought it would be fun to share our experiences we were having in this 'lifestyle'. My wife (Marg) is shy in telling stories of our fun but she does enjoy the fun.

?2. How successful has your search for what you're looking for been on this site? How many people have you met up with from this site? And, how many from this site have you had sex with?
Our success was better years ago and we had many, many people chatting with us. We do not post pictures on our profile and many have complained and maybe some have past us by because of it. We did post a few pictures on a different site and we found them all over the place and it really scared us, so now we only send pics to those who we feel that there is a good chance to meet and play. How many people have we meet from this site? Probably over a hundred. And how many we have had sex with? Probably over 70.

?3. From your profile, you live in Surrey in Canada's westernmost province, British Columbia. What's it like living there? What are the best and worst bits about living where you are?
I was born here in Surrey as my father and mother were also. Marg was born in Calgary, Alberta. We are farmers so it is a great area to farm. Never gets really cold but we do get lots of rain at times. We live close to the USA and to Vancouver. The ocean and the mountains are very close. A small worst bit maybe is that it is fairly crowded.

?4. What three words would you use to describe your personality, and what three words would you use to describe your partner's personality?
I would describe myself as friendly, generous, and kind. Marg is smart, devoted, and kind. We are both adventurous.

?5. What sort of things do you like doing in your spare time?
We really do not have much spare time, but I like to meet people and we do travel a lot and have seen a lot of the world. We love the water and have a cabin on the ocean and a townhouse on a lake, plus we live on our farm. Marg does sewing and cross-stich, and we both enjoy sex when it can happen.

?6. What is your favourite book, song, movie, television/streaming show and radio show/podcast? And why are they your favourites?
We do a lot of reading. especially before going to sleep. Mostly drama like Clive Cussler's novels, etc.
I was a DJ in my spare time years ago and I had many songs that were my favs. Marg had many favs also, so we didn't want to list any as there were and are many. We currently have a CD collection that has 1,200 CDs in it that we play randomly.
Movies are drama and comedy but not so much horror. Plus we watch some sports like Blue Jays baseball, CFL [Canadian Football League] football, and curling.

?7. What were you like as a kid? And when a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?
I (James) knew what I was going to be when I grew up. I knew I was going to be a farmer and that I am. It was and is in my blood and I will die as one. We never retire. Marg was raised in a military home and moved a lot. I think she was looking for a place to live and stay there. She had a good family life growing up and joined the IT group in airlines and retired as one. She married fairly young and was in the airline industry and after 25 years her husband died of cancer. Then she married me and has found a stable place to live and made my life as her's too.

?8. Have you traced your ancestry? If so, did you find out anything interesting?
I know most of my ancestry as our family passed it down. Pretty much all Scottish and can go back about ten generations, have not gone further. Marg has done some research and is a bit of a mix but seems to be all European. Nothing remarkable so never went deeper.

?9. From following your blog, I'm aware that you go to sex clubs or at least one sex club. What's been your best and your worst sex club experiences? Have you attended house sex parties and swinging resorts? If so, what are your thoughts of house parties and/or swinging resorts compared to sex clubs?
Sex clubs. Yes we have attended many clubs in our 20 years. Some only a few times, and others many times. One from the past was New Horizons in Everett, Washington State. It was a big club and often had a couple of hundred people attending. A three-storey complex with a great smorgasbord, dance hall and of course play rooms. It had problems when the owner passed away and it has been closed now for years. A lot of the smaller clubs seemed to only cater to couples only and we found that was not as enjoyable as some of the male partners didn't or couldn't play as much and that left a lot of the women without. The number one rule in all clubs is 'No Means NO at ANY Time'. It does not mean that too many men is unsafe. We attended a local sex club a few years ago and there was about 20 people there and Marg was the only woman, she had loads of fun but she did choose who she played with even though she played with many and often with multiple at the same time she didn't do them all. We have always been in the 'older' group of people playing and we are both a little overweight but sex clubs should be just for those that like that kind of fun. Not looking for a spouse or a partner. We have been in a few clubs that the owners asked us to not attend as we didn't suit their style. Fine we did have fun especially Marg as she REALLY knows what she is doing, but if not wanted 'no problem'. There were lots of clubs out there. Covid killed a lot of the clubs around here, and lately some are starting up. Our favourite is a local one that has moved three times in the last 20 years and is not cliquey and caters to all groups. The one thing that they insist on is consent and respect. Those that do not follow this are not allowed back. There are young people, older people, couples only, and singles. Anywhere from 12 to 70 people attend but we always have had fun. We have attended house parties and most have been great. We have hosted many parties at our house and have had a closed group that attend with about 20 to 30 attending. We always like to have more single men than women to make sure all have fun. We have attended some sex resorts like three or four days and they have been a lot of fun but they are expensive and with our schedule often we don't have the time when the parties are on.

?10. What is your favourite sex position? And why is this position your favourite?
My (James' ) favourite sex position is the woman on top (cowgirl). It gives me the opportunity to watch her face and fondle her boobs as she rides my cock. At my age and my surgeries and meds, it makes erections harder to achieve than when I was younger but Marg still can go strong. I really do enjoy watching her have fun. Her favourite positions are cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and doggy and when she can find a really hard and long cock she loves missionary and have the guy hammer her as hard as he can. She only cums with oral (mouth or fingers) and only once in a night, but she does really enjoy the fucking. She can also enjoy multiple men and she has had one cock in her pussy, one in her mouth and one on each side of her with her hands on each with each of those guys holding up a leg in a V position, then they switch around. Marg never does anal. She does like to suck cock but only as a starter and to prepare for the REAL fun.

?11. What's been your best and worst ever sexual encounters? And why were they your best and worst experiences?
Our best was probably at our local sex club that was very well attended. We started out early in the group room and Marg had a guy that knew us and he knew he was too wide for fucking Marg, so he just come up to her head for a bj and she was more than willing while another guy came up to her legs and started eating her out. I was laying down beside her and a lady friend of ours was giving me a bj and the big bed was loaded with other people. The guy eating out Marg soon slipped on a condom and stared fucking her, after a while he was done and another guy moved up and took over still while she was sucking the first guy's cock. My friend slid up and started riding my cock. There was another guy after that one with Marg, then she took a break.
After about an hour, we went back in the big open room and climbed up to the top of one of the bunk beds that ringed the room. We were soon joined by a new guy that was a little shy at the beginning but warmed up. Boy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggy, missionary, flat on top and sitting up and sideways, they did it all. He was done but he was great. Another guy came up but he didn't last long. Marg took another break.
The club was getting close to closing and people were starting to leave and I asked Marg if she wanted to go back up to the play room for a little bit more, she said sure. She was the only woman up there and there was a guy (young, big and black with a great hard-on) still there. He said he was flirting and fondling a lot of women that night but really wanted to fuck Marg and finish his night. He was great, they fucked missionary and he really hammered her and she was moaning really hard. The sounds drew more guys up to the play room, and when the black guy was finished another big, good looking guy asked to be next, SURE, this time it was doggy and after a while he came. Another guy, a little older, asked and Marg said okay but was getting tired. She climbed on top of him (cowgirl) and did him. I was really horny watching her have fun so when he came I asked her if she could finish with me. Yep, cowgirl with me and I didn't last long and I was done. The guy that was before me wanted to go again but Marg said she was really done and that was it. We think she had sex with 12 guys that night with most she didn't even know their names.
The worst was probably a guy we arranged to met at a coffee shop and then went to our house and he had to push in right after us 'because someone might see'." As soon as he was in the house he started to strip off his clothes and was starting to maul Marg, we said okay and moved to the bedroom where he slid on a condom and shoved his cock in but didn't last long at all. Finished, he got dressed said goodbye and out the door. From the time he came in to and out the door was maybe fifteen minutes. He did contact us many times later and asked for forgiveness and wanted to return but we always said no.

?12. Where has been the most unusual place you've had sex?
For me (James) the most unusual place to have sex would be years ago with my first wife. It was at night in a beach town not far from us. It was down by the water by a big white rock that the town is named after and we put a blanket down at the base of it and were soon doing it. We thought we were alone but when we were finished we found out there was another couple not too far away and started to clap their hands and told us that was great. With my current wife (Marg) it would probably in a crowded venue at a sex club when Marg took on three guys including me on a bed in the middle of a room with about 30 people gathered around watching.

?13. Roughly (or even better exactly), how many people have you had penetrative sex with? And what's the most number of times you've had sex in one day? What's the most number of people you've had sex with in one day?
For me (James), I would guess the number of women I have had penetrative sex with would be about 50, of course some would be only once but others would be numerous times and some even continuing today.
For Marg it would be over 100 (well over). She is not a whore or a slut, she just likes to have sex sometimes and sometimes she likes a lot. A lot of them would be in clubs and would be strangers that we wouldn't know their names or see them again. Others we have met and got to know a little about them and then had a play time and then decided if we would want to get together again and also if they wanted to continue with us. We have about four guys that have been fucking Marg for over 20 years who are still visiting us. We do keep a list of people that we would like to meet and play, and another list with text numbers of people we have played with and choose to or not play again. Some of the couples but most of them are guys tend to be off-and-on. With busy schedules both us and them, others drop out of the lifestyle for whatever reasons and still others drop out for health reasons. We have never gotten a STD and hope we never do. Maybe gotten a cold or two, but that would be it. I usually do the scouting of guys I think would interest Marg, but she does all the choosing of who, when and where. Number of times a day for me would be about four times. For Marg would be probably a dozen.
Different people in a day. For me, probably three; and Marg, close to 12.

?14. Do you like sex toys and/or sex accessories? If so, what's your favourite sex toy and/or sex accessory to use on someone else and to be used on you, and why are they your favourites?
Do we like sex toys? We do have a huge selection of toys but are rarely used any anymore. Marg likes the real thing. She has used the Sybian and greatly enjoyed it but we never spent the money to buy one.

?15. Have you had sex with more than two people involved? If so, what type or types of group sex have you been involved in? And, also if so, what's been the best group sex experience you've had, and why? What advice would you give people embarking on group sex for the first time?
We have had group sex many times in many ways and themes. 10 guys in a room and just Marg and another time with three women going around the room giving every guy a blow job. Another time 10 guys in a room and the women climbing on top of their cocks to any of them that were hard and wearing a condom. Another time we took one guy and two women put each in a different room and split the rest of the group up and took body paints and did body painting for an hour, then compared them later. We would take a person who just had a birthday and the opposite sex would line up and have sex with them. Our favourite would be just a group sex party with about 15 people in the bedroom with two beds and people just having sex with whoever they wish. We have done this numerous times, it only works with lots more men than women and the women willing to 'GO FOR IT'.

?16. On your Dating profile, you state "Gang bangs" are your kink. How many gangbangs have you been involved in, and what was largest number of people involved in a gangbang that you were involved in? What's been the best gangbang you've been involved in, and why was it so good?
Gang bangs. We do have a problem with the title 'gang bang'! We would prefer women choose. It is up to the woman to choose who, when, where, and how many at any time. Some like lots, some don't; some like pain some don't. It is up to them and for them to have a safe place and others to look out for them.

?17. What has been your most embarrassing sexual moment?
Most embarrassing is probably at a sex dance when Marg went up to a guy without looking closely and found it to be our niece's husband who was with a woman and not our niece.

?18. What is your perfect three-course meal? And what drink would you have with the meal?
My perfect meal would be lobster with baked potato and escargots with a glass of Merlot. Marg's would be salmon with a salad and a few vegies, and Merlot.

?19. If you could invite three famous people, dead or alive, to join you at a dinner party, who would you invite and why?
We both would probably not wish to invite someone we did not know to a dinner party.

?20. As the last question, please can you volunteer three bits of information about yourselves that haven't been covered in this interview?
I am pretty much an open book and what you see is what you get. Marg is a sleeper, she is older and overweight but looks much younger and really is a tiger.

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