why mutual masturbation is totally hot

What is mutual masturbation?
According to Collins English Dictionary, mutual masturbation is ‘the act of two or more people masturbating each other’, ie people are touching each other with no penetration.

However, in some uses, it can also be understood to be two or more people masturbating together but are only touching themselves.

What is mutual masturbation for you?
Everyone is touching themselves, in a group
We're all touching each other with no sex
Stop it, masturbation is an abomination
(It's not about a single person)

Make no mistake, sex for sex’s sake is not a bad thing – but why restrict yourself to nearly-getting-there-but-not-quite when you could guarantee orgasms every time?

And that’s where mutual masturbation comes in.

It’s an activity which means that, instead of focusing on one person’s satisfaction over another, both participants can truly absorb themselves in their quest for pleasure, and are far more likely to climax – together.

In addition to this, and, despite the lack of potential physical contact, it is amazingly intimate.

Watching your partner get themselves off can be hugely arousing; and allowing your partner to watch you play with yourself takes trust, but will take your sex life and your ability to be honest in bed with one another to another level.

The trust, intimacy and downright horniness of mutual masturbation means you are adding another dimensions to your sex life, without even touching one another – which is super hot.

After all, nothing makes you want a piece of the cake more than seeing it in the window and not being able to taste it.

You’ll learn a lot too. And in a way where you can potentially avoid the awkward conversation about how you’re most likely to reach orgasm.

(Slow, slow, fast, fast, fast, slow. Oh, forget it, I’ll do it myself)

Showing your partner how you like to be touched will not only turn them on massively, but will also let them know, for future reference (very important), how you’re most likely to come.

It’s also kind of naughty – or at least can feel like it when you’re being watched.

Masturbation can still send a ripple of giggles through a crowd and your average dinner party guest is far more likely to discuss sex after a few drinks than how best they orgasm on their own.

Including your partner when you masturbate feels sexy, a little bit naughty and like you are sharing something way more intimate than sex – it’s basic, raw and is totally focused on the prize.

There is, after all, nothing sexier than seeing a person totally absorbed in their own pleasure and basic instinct to get it and will give your sex life an intimacy and edge you’re unlikely to achieve with sex alone.

It will also mean significantly more orgasms – and what’s not to love about that?